Breathe...Believe!

09/25/16 - It's been an eventful week! It started off with great news!  Got the results of my shoulder scans, and it turns out I have tendonosis, which is similar to tendonitis but there's less inflammation & it's chronic.  Why on earth are you happy about that, you ask?  Well, at least it's not a liposarcoma recurrence!  I've actually run across some fellow survivors whose recurrence was misdiagnosed as tendonitis or tendonosis, so I am very relieved to say the least!  :) Even though I figured it was probably something like tendonitis, there was a part of me that was afraid it was something much worse.  Tendonosis may  suck, but at least it's not going to kill me!  :) And it's slowly getting better, which my doctor says is normal as some cases can take several months to heal.  Meanwhile, I have one more batch of tests next month for my usual surveillance before my trip for Placebo's 20th anniversary tour!   Here's hoping my lucky streak continues & I make it to 16 months NED (no evidence of disease)!  I can't wait to get out of here for a good while!

On Wednesday, I finally got my sarcoma ribbons!  Yes, you read that right, ribbons in the plural!  I ended up getting not one but two tattoos, one with the yellow sarcoma awareness ribbon honoring survivors, warriors & the fallen & the other with the plum ribbon honouring caregivers.  Originally, I intended to get these in July for my first anniversary of Bing in remission, but better late than never!  :) Of course, I put my own personal spin on them to make them more personalized to me & am so pleased with how they turned out!  My tattooist did a wonderful job of re-creating the vision in my mind's eye!  Of course, I also managed to incorporate Placebo into the mix & included scripts  inspired by some of Brian's lyrics.  As a pair, the tattoos for me honour family both two & four-legged, friends both near & far & the music that has helped me get through life, especially the past year following my sarcoma cancer diagnosis.  They also represent hope, strength & finding inner peace.  I've also come to the conclusion that there are a LOT more nerves in the wrists than there are in the upper arms!  Still, the pain from this latest batch of tatts doesn't even come close to last year's one foot drain from hell!  It's all relative, y'know?  ;)

Now I'm throwing caution to the wind & am getting two more done on top of the two I just got.  When they're all complete, I'll be up to a total of six!  The next batch will honour my furbabies, as well as a big one to honour Placebo's 20th anniversary tour!  I'm both excited & nervous at the same time, since the anniversary one is going to be the most ambitious tattoo I've yet to get!  It's going to take more than two hours to complete!   The things we do for our body art & a love of music, LOL!

Speaking of body art, recently, the news aired a story about a woman who does tattoos to cover scars for cancer patients & others who have scars for various reasons.  It almost sounds perfect, except for the fact that there's one part of my massive scar line that is SUPER sensitive, so much so that there is no way I could handle getting tattooed there, as it's even uncomfortable when I gently touch that area.  Otherwise, it would've been perfect, since most of the scar line is completely numb with little to no feeling whatsoever.  But no, I think I'll stick to torturing the other parts of my skin instead, thank you very much!  :p

Interestingly, I waited 17 years between my first & second tattoos, and now all of a sudden I'm on a roll, getting tattoos left right & centre.  According to my tattooist, this is apparently quite normal after someone has experienced a major life event, such as cancer.  Suddenly, it just makes everything clear as to what's important & you lose that fear of "should I or shouldn't I do this or that?".  "Live for today, hope for tomorrow" pretty much sums it up.  As cancer survivors, particularly high grade cancer survivors, we just don't know how much time we have & it it'll come back.  Of course, nobody truly knows how much time they have left, but it's exacerbated ten fold when you're a survivor.  Having a 40-50% chance of distant metastasis or recurrence within five years & a 56% chance within 10 years gives you a whole new perspective on taking chances in life.  Just to clarify, in case I haven't yet already, those 85% as of five-years survival rate stats I wrote about earlier on in my blog did not differentiate myxoid from myxoid round cell, the latter of which has a much higher rate of recurrence & poorer long term prognosis.  So, to the family & friends possibly wondering "Why is she doing all this when she's still laid off work?", that's why.  Put simply, I don't have the luxury of assuming I have the luxury of time.

Speaking of time, I've never been religious or very spiritual for that matter, but I'm really starting to believe everything happens for a reason & at the right time.  Last week it was announced that my childhood favourite, Culture Club, whom I never got to see is going on tour, so after 33 years of waiting, I will finally get to see the original lineup live!  Although I've seen George perform solo, I've yet to actually see all of Culture Club as a whole perform together in one room!  Too say I am ecstatic is an understatement!  Being laid off in the middle of cancer treatment has actually been a blessing in disguise, because it's given me time to do even more travelling than usual without the worry off it interfering with a job & vice versa - and to just ENJOY it.  So, now I have two Culture Club shows plus a whole bunch of Placebo gigs to look forward to over the next few months!  Life is good!  I may not know what the future holds health or job-wise  for that matter, but I am learning to just trust in the universe & that things will work out the way they're meant to. This hamster is going to enjoy her time away from the wheel for a bit longer!

How has being a cancer survivor changed your life perspective, and how did you mark your first anniversary of being in remission?  Feel free to drop me a comment below!


[NOTE: Title inspired by lyrics from Placebo's "Loud Like Love", which can be found on their 2013 album of the same name.]


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